Do you start conversations with 'I know we are busy but'? Do
you always feel tired and like you are always trying to catch up? Is your life
or the lives' around you controlled by technology? Are you always plugged in?
I have felt like this for the last couple of years - at work
and at home. I admit that I am the sort of person who overcommits because I
want to make people happy. However last year I realised that although making
other people happy makes me happy, it really doesn't matter if I rush to finish
knitting those scarves as I haven't spoiled the surprise by telling anyone that
I was even making them! After a bit of soul searching, I have taken a step back
over the past six months. I have taken a step for me.
Here are four things to think about and to work towards
changing. It really will help!
Stop talking about being busy:
If you keep talking about being busy then you will not break
the cycle. Try to lessen the use of the word 'busy' in your vocabulary and
encourage others to do the same.
Take back your mornings (or evenings):
Getting up earlier to do something for you is recommended by
so many people but it is easier said than done when you are not a morning
person like me! On the weekends I endeavour to start each day with a cuppa to
wake myself up in tranquillity - to be ready to start the day. I admit that I
am a snooze alarm person so my weekdays are up and out the door. However that
does not mean that I can't take a moment for myself during the weekday - I do
it in the evenings now instead. This can be a few minutes or few hours. I attempt
to lose myself in a movie, magazine, listening to music, or by pottering around
the house.
Be better prepared with your meals:
One of my important aims this year is to lose some weight.
This means meal planning. In only a short time, I have already found that this
has made me more organised and less chaotic. Taking the same lunch a few days
each week takes the worry out of it and also saves you money. Also try to plan
a few simple meals for dinner during the week. More complicated and yummy
treats can be cooked on your weekend. This will keep you well nourished - body
and soul.
Unplug:
Social media and the television tell us that everyone is
addicted to technology and that we spend exorbitant hours of our days plugged
in. I am guilty of this too. Do you really need to constantly chat to people
about nothing? Do you really need to scroll and scroll? I have been limiting my
time by unfollowing things that do not really interest me. Also by putting the
smartphone down when I am enjoying a movie or the like. The time you do spend
on the internet becomes more interesting when you are more selective about what
you watch, see, and listen to.
The exciting thing is that I am not the only one who reaps
the rewards from these changes! My family, friends, and colleagues do too! By slowing
down and unplugging I have actually become more connected.
Do not feel selfish about taking time for yourself. Self-care
is super significant in terms of living a healthier life. Don't look at it as
being selfish. Instead you are being selective about your busyness. You are
stopping the glorification of busy. Take a breath and try it!!